| How
to Set Intentions that Energize You
by Charles Burke
We've all heard how crucial it
is to set intentions, goals and targets.
Powerful goals electrify us.
Clear intentions energize and pull us forward.
Without a clearcut intention,
we're reactive and don't get around to doing the
important things when we want them done. Instead,
we spend our time fighting random fires.
Without clear intentions, anything
might happen. And usually does.
Literally, intentions are like
the steering wheel on your car. Their whole purpose
is to give you control over where you're going.
But when setting intentions or goals, keep in
mind that if you can't measure it, you can't manage
it.
Now, it's good to have intentions
at more than one level. When we get up into the
more conceptual intentions, such as "I will
contribute to the wellbeing of those around me,"
these become like a mission statement.
But then, be sure you go on to
decide specifically how you will go about implementing
your mission in your daily life. Specifics are
essential.
How -- specifically -- will you
put your mission into action today? What will
you actually DO about your highest intentions?
It's important to set intentions
for yourself because this is where the rubber
meets the road.
Just say "I'm going to do
this and this." It should be nothing big
and overpowering. Just some stuff you're meaning
to do or achieve short-term.
Be sure to write them down on
paper. When you list them out, you can clearly
look over your results afterward and check yourself.
At the end of today or this time
next week, did you do what you said you'd do?
Expressed like that, it's clear that we're building
a kind of internal integrity check within ourselves.
When you're first starting to
build this new intention-setting skill (habit),
it's important not to pile on too much. Sure,
it's easy to get all excited about turning over
a new leaf, but it's essential that you start
where you are NOW, not where you think you SHOULD
be.
There are things that, from experience,
you already know you can do. Set your intentions
to do those things (plus perhaps a little bit
more) and achieve them. Then, when you're comfortable
doing what you say you'll do, then you can begin
to stretch your intention muscles a little more.
But as in any new regimin, begin
easy. Begin with what you can actually do. And
only after you get comfortable with the intention-setting
process should you start going for real growth.
Patience - taking small, measured steps - is more
than a virtue here. It's the key to keeping yourself
moving forward. (Notice I said patience, not procrastination.)
Attempt too much too soon, and
the end result will be another round of demotivation
and discouragement.
Instead, go about this logically
and gradually: keep your eye on the level you
want to reach next year, and let today's effort
take you 1/365th of the way there. Do this, and
you'll see real, measurable progress as well as
achievements you'll truly be proud of.
It's all pretty simple stuff,
really. Just training yourself to keep your word
to yourself.
Cheers from sunny Japan,
Charles
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